Tag Archives: consent

Shifting Rape Culture, We Are the Lightning

Today was a beautiful day. I’ve been working so hard these last few weeks with pretty much no rest, so I took a self-care day today and it was wonderful. Of course, by self-care day I mean taking two naps … Continue reading

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Why Violating Consent isn’t Just a D Thing – Fetish.com

Most people think Dom/Dommes can handle anything. But subs violating consent is also a big issue in the scene. It’s important to keep good communication. Source: Why Violating Consent isn’t Just a D Thing – Fetish.com ~My article is on … Continue reading

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To Thine Own Self Be True – Shame, Misogyny, and Rape Culture

Shakespeare gave us, “To thine own self be true.” He gave us a great many things, but today this quote means more to me. While it can apply to many areas of life or mean different things to different people, … Continue reading

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Trust and Betrayal

As I sit here thinking about what I want to write tonight, my mind is jumping all over the place. Part of me wants to talk about how I’ve really enjoyed writing this last batch of fetish articles I’ve submitted, … Continue reading

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Subs Violate Consent Too

Consent is something I’ve written about several times now, but in this post I’m going to cover some areas that are often overlooked. Part of this post was a request, and the rest I feel fits well with the subject … Continue reading

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My Apologies… Not

I was going through old writings and emails I sent to D, and realized that I apologize constantly. I knew I used to, people always told me. But I’m really seeing it now. Kinda hard not to when I have … Continue reading

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What Sex Means to Me

Right now, I should be doing well. I’m getting published under Sienna more, on blogs and in anthologies. I’m taking part in NaNoWriMo. I’ve had great events with the nonprofit writing workshop I’m Pres of. Met some amazing people who served … Continue reading

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