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Agency and Orgasms

Today, I asked D for something that even now, sounds a bit wonky even for me. And I was the one asking! But I’ve come to realize over these last fourish years that I know what I need to heal … Continue reading

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Embracing My Inner Schoolgirl

I’m a little wired right now. Despite today being one of the busiest days (weeks really) I’ve had all summer. I should be worn out and earlier tonight I even was, but much has happened since then. Things that helped … Continue reading

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Illusions of Control – via Fetish.com

My article on Illusions of Control is on fetish.com right now. Check it out! When in a D/s relationship, who is really in control? Some will say the Dom/Domme, while others insist it’s actually the submissive. I feel both are … Continue reading

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Sweatpants & Relationships | Joyous Sexuality via sweatpantsandcoffee.com

Right now, I feel it’s more important than ever to own who I am sexually. Things have shifted with our new administration and many people I know are pulling inward out of fear of being judged or harassed. But denial … Continue reading

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Why Violating Consent isn’t Just a D Thing – Fetish.com

Most people think Dom/Dommes can handle anything. But subs violating consent is also a big issue in the scene. It’s important to keep good communication. Source: Why Violating Consent isn’t Just a D Thing – Fetish.com ~My article is on … Continue reading

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Gratitude Wins

I’ve had a rough week. That might even be an understatement. Which means it’s the perfect time for a post on appreciation and gratitude. I have so many remarkable and brave people in my life that it’s helpful for me … Continue reading

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Acceptance and Being Daddy’s princess

Acceptance. The word means many things depending on where you’re at in life. It might mean accepting that you’ve failed at something and it’s time to move on. Or maybe it means you’re accepting an aspect of your life that … Continue reading

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