Tag Archives: Domme

Getting It Release Announcement

Today is a special day. For a while, I’d wanted to own a publishing company and put out content that I felt good about. Sex with enthusiastic consent, BDSM with enthusiastic consent, healthy relationships where women had equal power and … Continue reading

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The Paradox of Me

I had quite a bit of fun with D over the phone today. Good conversation, lots of energy play, and so much coming! The combination left me deep and squirming, but also understanding a great deal more about myself. Which … Continue reading

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Subs Violate Consent Too

Consent is something I’ve written about several times now, but in this post I’m going to cover some areas that are often overlooked. Part of this post was a request, and the rest I feel fits well with the subject … Continue reading

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Becoming the Tantrika

I headed into last weekend with great anticipation. There were many friends I wanted to see at a convention, people I wanted to meet, and a BDSM party that I couldn’t wait to attend. The convention itself has turned into an evidence … Continue reading

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When Poly and Kink Collide

Over the weekend, something happened that caused me heartache. Not because I was lied to or betrayed (though that’s surely where my PTSD brain tried to take it), but because poly and D/s relations are very different, and their overlap—while … Continue reading

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Withholding

I have many memorable moments when it comes to D/s, and while my Domme moments are quick to leap into mind—her pupils dilating as I pulled her hair and slapped her face, his mouth falling open when I instructed him … Continue reading

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Divine Feminine

Today I did something that surprised me, I changed my honorific. In any other circumstance, this wouldn’t be a huge deal. But the honorific I changed, was the one I signed off an email to my Dom with. He’s changed my honorific … Continue reading

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