Tag Archives: Domme

Getting It Release Announcement

Today is a special day. For a while, I’d wanted to own a publishing company and put out content that I felt good about. Sex with enthusiastic consent, BDSM with enthusiastic consent, healthy relationships where women had equal power and … Continue reading

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Illusions of Control – via Fetish.com

My article on Illusions of Control is on fetish.com right now. Check it out! When in a D/s relationship, who is really in control? Some will say the Dom/Domme, while others insist it’s actually the submissive. I feel both are … Continue reading

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Why Violating Consent isn’t Just a D Thing – Fetish.com

Most people think Dom/Dommes can handle anything. But subs violating consent is also a big issue in the scene. It’s important to keep good communication. Source: Why Violating Consent isn’t Just a D Thing – Fetish.com ~My article is on … Continue reading

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The Paradox of Me

I had quite a bit of fun with D over the phone today. Good conversation, lots of energy play, and so much coming! The combination left me deep and squirming, but also understanding a great deal more about myself. Which … Continue reading

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Subs Violate Consent Too

Consent is something I’ve written about several times now, but in this post I’m going to cover some areas that are often overlooked. Part of this post was a request, and the rest I feel fits well with the subject … Continue reading

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Becoming the Tantrika

I headed into last weekend with great anticipation. There were many friends I wanted to see at a convention, people I wanted to meet, and a BDSM party that I couldn’t wait to attend. The convention itself has turned into an evidence … Continue reading

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When Poly and Kink Collide

Over the weekend, something happened that caused me heartache. Not because I was lied to or betrayed (though that’s surely where my PTSD brain tried to take it), but because poly and D/s relations are very different, and their overlap—while … Continue reading

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