Tag Archives: relationships

Illusions of Control – via Fetish.com

My article on Illusions of Control is on fetish.com right now. Check it out! When in a D/s relationship, who is really in control? Some will say the Dom/Domme, while others insist it’s actually the submissive. I feel both are … Continue reading

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Writing, Therapy, and Thriving

Last night I got back to a writing project—okay, a novel—that I was hoping to finish by last December. I’ve never had so much trouble writing a novel before. Usually, I’m quite fast and can crank them out. First drafts, … Continue reading

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Sweatpants & Relationships | Joyous Sexuality via sweatpantsandcoffee.com

Right now, I feel it’s more important than ever to own who I am sexually. Things have shifted with our new administration and many people I know are pulling inward out of fear of being judged or harassed. But denial … Continue reading

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Shattered Illusions and Falling Towers

There’s something to be said for letting go of lies and illusions and walking in my power. The lies and illusions I refer to are the ones that kept me in the darkness. They were designed to keep me in … Continue reading

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People In My Life, I <3 You

Tonight, I was commenting on one of my Facebook posts and it dawned on me that I’ve been spoiled by wonderful, intelligent, brave people with integrity these last few years. I say spoiled because I’m surrounded by such wonderful folks–people … Continue reading

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Melt Is Available For Preorder Today!

With so much negativity these last few days, this is certainly something to make me happy! Preorders for Melt begin today! Not only did my story, Finding Home, show me a lot about myself (my growth and healing), but I … Continue reading

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My Kind of Romance

For most of my life, I thought there was something wrong with me. While people would talk about falling in love and feel gushy mushy feelings for those they crushed on, I never did. I’d be watching a sunset with … Continue reading

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