Tag Archives: sub

Illusions of Control – via Fetish.com

My article on Illusions of Control is on fetish.com right now. Check it out! When in a D/s relationship, who is really in control? Some will say the Dom/Domme, while others insist it’s actually the submissive. I feel both are … Continue reading

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Please, Sir?

Most days I’m flying high and feeling great, then I begin to feel it. The eventual fall, the moment when all that’s good and great in my life will turn upside down, leaving me hurt again. While this level of … Continue reading

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Subs Violate Consent Too

Consent is something I’ve written about several times now, but in this post I’m going to cover some areas that are often overlooked. Part of this post was a request, and the rest I feel fits well with the subject … Continue reading

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Literotica Stories

I have a couple of short stories on literotica that I keep forgetting to share on here. So here are the intros and links to them should you want to read some free stories. 🙂 Erotica – Under The Night … Continue reading

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Becoming the Tantrika

I headed into last weekend with great anticipation. There were many friends I wanted to see at a convention, people I wanted to meet, and a BDSM party that I couldn’t wait to attend. The convention itself has turned into an evidence … Continue reading

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When Poly and Kink Collide

Over the weekend, something happened that caused me heartache. Not because I was lied to or betrayed (though that’s surely where my PTSD brain tried to take it), but because poly and D/s relations are very different, and their overlap—while … Continue reading

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Divine Feminine

Today I did something that surprised me, I changed my honorific. In any other circumstance, this wouldn’t be a huge deal. But the honorific I changed, was the one I signed off an email to my Dom with. He’s changed my honorific … Continue reading

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